I Got Bored- Poly Dating pt.6

Welcome to my poly dating series that tends to be the comic relief of my blog. I've now created an entire folder/section where you can view all my blogs that talk about my life style! If you are viewing this blog, you're already in it. Enjoy!

When I say I got bored I don't mean I got bored of Sean and our relationship, we are doing quite well actually. I mean I got bored staying at home during this quarantine with little human interaction. So I hopped back on to online dating. For my followers, you know my last poly dating blog was about me taking a break back in February. It was short. lol

Yes, I've got screen shots!

When you have been online dating, on and off, as long as I have, you do start to run into the same people. But there has been this one particular person who has literally been on every app I have ever use. Always asks to go out for coffee, and then completely disappears, only to be seen again on another dating app. I wish I had screen shots from years past. He's just an odd phenomenon, I think he might be troll/robot/ sex trafficking account though. Meet Ross. Same name, photos and profile on every dating app I've ever seen him on. Match, Bumble, Tinder, POF and now Hinge. Bro, what's going on?

And that is the farthest I have ever made it with dear ole' Ross. Wowzers. What is up with that dude?

Ross wasn't my only repeat in the past few weeks. Meet Dane. He had a killer singing voice and sent me video (below) of him singing the last time we talked. (2018) He lived about an hour away in PA and apparently worked too much for any socializing. Living in western Maryland doesn't leave me that great of a dating pool, and traveling has always been a thing for my social life, I didn't mind. I believe he lived on a farm of sorts and a was a mechanic to large machinery. He owned several broken down vehicles he told me he spent most of his free time on. He said he had been single for about two years at that point but yet he never was able to ever set a time up to meet or even talk on the phone, despite constant flirting and sexting.

He also didn't have a problem sending unwanted dick pics though. See my recent blog Unicorn Hunters about consent and my opinion of said unwanted dick pics. Anyways, he didn't reply after that message reminding him of his lack of time management and immediately unmatched me. LOL Glad I snapped a screen shot. I guess he didn't want anything else other than more sexting after all.

Last conversation from 2018.

That. Voice. Though.

Next up we have Facebook messenger. A social media that I actually don't use for dating. While I don't mind making new friends via my Facebook, I never used their relatively new "dating" feature and I don't think I have ever added someone with the sole intent to date them. I'm a big flirt though, so I'll totally add you and tell you caught my eye, even if you live in Europe. But hell, I don't just go snooping around on your profile assuming you are interested in dating. That simply isn't how I use that social media. No shade to those who do.... unless you think I need a man to make me happy. Like this poor sucker.

Yeah... my friends wouldn't want you either.

People just randomly jump in my inbox to ask how I am doing. I was outside enjoying a perfectly nice bonfire with Sean with a rose wine when this socially awkward goon who was just trying to get his dick wet from 4 hours away, messaged me.

I don't understand how low peoples social skills can be sometimes or why talking to strangers like this is okay. Maybe I am the only person they will ever meet that will tell them their actions are annoying and not okay. But I fully understand it isn't my job to teach others how to socialize or flirt. I'm not Will Smith from Hitch with a dating advise business. I'm definitely not getting paid for it either.

Online dating isn't always this terrible. I do typically only show the failed attempts. I digress, I met most of my ex lovers, and current partner from it. I'm a picky dater when it comes to the heart. I remained single for three years before I met Sean. In a world where public and social isolation is being practiced at the moment, even wanting good conversation can be difficult to find. Something I look forward to the most when life starts opening back up is going to writing skill clubs, open mike nights, yoga classes and traveling again to meet new people. Ultimately depending less on the online dating. This extrovert is struggling. DEEPLY.

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